When a child talks of suicide you should ….

LISTEN:

Encourage the child to talk to you or to some other trusted person.

Listen to the child’s feelings. Don’t give advice or feel obligated to find simple solutions. Try to imagine how you would feel in the child’s place.

BE HONEST:

If the child’s words or actions scare you, tell him or her. If you’re worried or don’t know what to do, say so. Don’t be a cheerful phony.

SHARE FEELINGS:

At times everyone feels sad, hurt, or hopeless. You know what that’s like; share your feelings. Let the child know he or she is not alone.

GET HELP:

Professional help is crucial when something as serious as suicide is considered.

Help may be found at a suicide prevention and crisis center, local mental health association, or through clergy.

Become familiar with the suicide prevention program at the child’s school. Contact the appropriate person(s) at the school.

24 HOUR
SUICIDE PREVENTION HOT LINE
(877) 7-CRISIS (Toll Free in Los Angeles County)